Firstly, what is ANGER? Anger is a strong emotional response that typically arises when you feel something is unfair, threatening, or frustrating. Everyone often experiences this emotion from time to time. It is actually laden with Physiological, Emotional and Behavioral effects Frankly, Anger is a natural part of life, but letting it loose in your relationships can burn bridges faster than you...
Managing Anger Effectively in Relationships
Critical Financial Management in Marriage
This is a beautiful topic that can either make or mar homes. Before jumping into this crucial topic, we must first take a quick look at some basic definitions. Firstly, what is Marriage? Marriage is a culturally and legally recognized union between a man and woman. What does God say about finance in marriage? From the Bible, God’s designed marriages to pursue oneness in every aspect of the...
FOOTBALL AND THE RACISM EPIDEMIC
Football is a game that pits two teams of 11 against each other. They use any part of their body (except hands!) to maneuver a ball into the opponent’s net. The team with the most goals after two halves claims victory. It’s the world’s most popular sport for a reason! Indeed, Football is a global phenomenon uniting million but it’s face with a persistent foe called RACISM. This...
The Increasing Menace of Gun Violence in Our World and the Help We Need
What is Gun Violence? It’s the broad term for violence committed with any kind of firearm, from a handgun to a rifle. Gun violence has become a terrifying reality in our World. Mass shootings dominate headlines, but countless lives are also lost to suicides, domestic violence, and stray bullets. These tragedies leave families shattered, communities traumatized, and a deep sense of fear...
HOW TO MAKE BEST USE OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA FOR TEENAGERS
Social media refers to online platforms that connect people and allow them to share content, ideas, and information. Some popular examples of social media platforms include Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, and TikTok. Social media isn’t the enemy, but it can be a real pain for teenagers. The constant pressure to be “perfect,” the fear of missing out, and the endless scroll...
MARRIAGE JOY HITTING THE ROCK
Marriage is a beautiful adventure, but like any journey, it has its challenges. Disagreements, life changes, and miscommunication can all create bumps in the road. Below is some of the avoidable pitfalls. Growing Apart, Not Together: People change, and sometimes couples find themselves on different paths. Priorities, life goals, and interests can evolve. Financial Friction: Money is a major...
WEAlth abuse
Abuse of wealth can turn something good into something ugly. It’s like having a mountain of delicious food while people around you starve. Someone who abuses wealth might flaunt it excessively, hurting others’ feelings. They could also use their money to exploit people or buy influence, tipping the scales unfairly. In the end, it’s not just about the money itself, but about the...
the beauty of service in lagos
Under Lagos sun, sweat on my brow, I hustle and greet, “Good morning o!” No AC coolin’, just the breeze that blows, But a smile for each face, that’s how it goes Mama blessing me with her morning call, “Pick up the basket, there’s work for us all.” Yams and tomatoes, piled high and strong, Helping hands carry the blessings along. Through the market I...
THE CONFESSIONAL RHETORIC
What do you do when the folks have left praying mode? What do you do when the ‘Few’ have left the secret grazing on His Word but do gaze on distractions? Probably due to tight perilous schedules! But what can you say when nudity has become cheap while modesty and self-control had evaporated? What do you do when mannerism is hard to find but irrational pretence, provocations becomes routine? What...
“TESTIMONIALIZATION”
Testimony is to the glory of God alone, do not share one with the mindset of advertising a man of God.When an individual shares a testimony to propel a child of God to take God’s glory, the fellow might be indirectly endangering the spiritual walk of the child of God. Our God is a Jealous God. He once slayed a king (Herod) and even reduced another (Nebuchadnezzar) for ‘partaking’ in His glory...